Dear Future Husband,

Date me every day. Let the life we teach, post and promote be the life we live daily. You don’t have to flaunt what you do. You can show me better then you can tell anyone. Remember to tell me how much you love me more then you tell others. Our marriage will not be about showing off or being grand. It is about the promises of God manifested in our lives and our assignment to show consistent, covenant, and Godly marriage.

When we become one, it is essential that I as your wife is your first priority; just as you as my husband will be my first priority. Remember to cater, serve and submit to me as my husband as I have promised to cater, serve and submit to you as your wife. When God destined you for me and me for you, He made sure that everything we needed in a partner would provide in one another. Daily we must seek to be the person God have created us to be; first for ourselves but also for one another. As I strive to be that, I pray that you do the same.

Husband, this is why the two of us will become one. Alone, as two individuals, we were able to accomplish so much, be and do great things. But when we become one, our purposes will become greater, our impact will be enhanced and our greatness will be magnified. And in the end, only God will be glorified.

Here’s to daily living!

Your Future Wife

Dear Future Husband,

Do you know how much I love you? ALMOST as much as I love Christ. Honestly, the amount of love I have for you scares me. I never thought I could love someone without meeting them, without knowing them or without building a bond with them. However, when I think of you I am filled with so many unexplainable emotions.  Then I ask myself, “Who is this man that has me acting like a giddy school girl? I am not this person!”

Then I recall my thoughts and prayers of you. I remembered I prayed for a husband who loved God; one that had an intimate relationship with Him, submitting himself to His will and would seek God for direction in all things. A husband that was a leader. A leader that lead by serving; serving his wife, his family and God’s people. A husband who will use his wisdom to make good decisions for those in which he leads. I know if God isn’t your source, I will never be able to submit myself to you. Your love for Christ is the thing I love most about you because it is the thing that matters the most to me.

When I think of you, I think of a man after God’s own heart. A man with the heart of Christ. A man of great character. A man that loves unconditionally, seeking to build up and meet the needs of others without expecting anything in return.  A man that is humble, kind, loving, always displaying integrity, honesty and compassion towards others. A man that is faithful, loyal, dependable, generous and merciful.

I see you as a confident, courageous husband. One uses and draws from the strength given by God to face any situation knowing he is already victorious. He knows that the God that is in him is greater than he who is in the world. A husband that will encourage and exhort me and others.  One who will attentive to me and our children and will be supportive in every endeavor we embark on.  A husband that is slow to anger and full of patience because being married to me, both are essential (I know my truth).

So when I ask myself, “how can I love someone I never met?” I am reminded how much I love Christ, whom I’ve never met. My love for you is patterned like my love for Christ (as it should be). I love Him for who He is, just as I love you.

Stay Tuned,

Your Future Wife

Dear Future Husband,

Words cannot express how excited I over you. You have no idea I how much I have prayed for you, our marriage, our ministries; both collectively and individually and our life’s work. I can truly say, I already love someone I’ve never even met. That someone is you! I am looking forward to your presence being manifested in my life. Until that happens…I have some work to do and I am sure you do too!

While I am embracing this season of singleness, I want you to know about me and my journey to you. I figured I would write you letters about my ups and downs of life, the things I learned, things I still need to master, my goals for our marriage and everything else under the sun. In addition, I wanted other Christian women to read and learn from my experiences and also encourage them as they wait on God to be found by their future husbands.

Thanks to two of my other mamas, what was something just for you has become a blog. I am sure you will be thankful to the both of them; just as many others will. Until then…

I say to you, sit back, enjoy the ride and get ready for the woman God has created just for you. I’m coming soon and I will be worth the wait!

Stay Tuned,

Your Future Wife